Travel

Get to Know Oak Lawn, Dallas' Iconic Gayborhood

Discover a place where Pride knows no bounds.

North Texas LGBT Chamber of Commerce
North Texas LGBT Chamber of Commerce
North Texas LGBT Chamber of Commerce

It still surprises many people that Dallas has such a large LGBTQ+ community. After all, Texas continues to make headlines for its conservative one-upmanship in the state capital, often directly taking aim at the rights queer folks have fought so hard to achieve. However, this very adversity may be the reason queer Texans have been forced to band together, becoming an influential force to be reckoned with for survival and instinctively knowing when it’s time to make our voices heard and take a stand. Openly LGBTQ+ leaders occupy several top elected roles in the community and have recently held positions as important as Chief of Police. Queer-owned and allied businesses are strong here, too, evidenced by our own well-established LGBT Chamber of Commerce. And when it’s time to play, watch out-you’ll likely find us partying it up at the Crossroads, AKA the intersection of Throckmorton Street and Cedar Springs Road at the heart of our own Oak Lawn gayborhood. As a proud gay man (Happy Pride, y’all!), I’ve been part of the Dallas queer community for a long time. Like, a reallllly long time. We’re talking after mobile phones but before smartphones, back when a grinder was just a sub sandwich from Boston and the only “cancel culture” I encountered was desperate attempts to end my Crunch gym membership. Indeed, I was young and naive back in the mid-1990s, but despite being warned that some Dallas gays were snobs, I managed to find a tribe of lifelong friends and chosen family, a partner of two-and-a-half decades, and a running bar tab that’s probably hovering somewhere around $300,000 (and counting). In fact, wherever you find me in the ‘hood, I’m typically accompanied by a healthy dusting of glitter, the latest on-trend cocktail, and a soundtrack fueled by pop divas-and that’s just when visiting my chiropractor or dropping off shirts at the dry cleaner.

Dallas Gayborhood
Dallas Gayborhood
Dallas Gayborhood

Sure, I’ve witnessed first-hand the changes Oak Lawn and the surrounding areas have gone through over the years, but at its core, much has stayed the same. Due to a variety of factors, the number of bars and other LGBTQ+ businesses have decreased. Rent increases, the pandemic, internet dating sites, and smartphone apps have all played a role, but we can’t discount the fact that we’re now able to be our authentic selves almost anywhere in town, thereby reducing the need for exclusively queer spaces. But that doesn’t make places owned by queer people and our allies any less important. Visiting Oak Lawn this past weekend for Dallas Pride, it was abundantly clear by the thousands of people packed into bars, restaurants, shops, and streets that we still need a central meeting place where we feel safe, respected, and loved. So whether you’re a lifelong resident, new to town, or planning an upcoming visit to Big D, here are the fab places you need to go, not only during June but throughout the entire rainbow-hued year.

Alexandre's
Alexandre’s
Alexandre’s

Toast to the Dallas queer community

At its peak, the Dallas nightlife scene had more than 30 bars and clubs, not including those in Arlington, Fort Worth, Denton, and other metroplex cities. Though we’re probably never going to see that same kind of hey-gurl hay day ever again, we still have 24 watering holes across North Texas with 17 scattered about the gayborhood. And while Oak Lawn’s bars are open to everyone (21 and over, of course), it’s still good to keep their specific niches in mind when picking a place to let loose in the ‘hood.

For dancing, head to Station 4 (also called S4), a large two-story club that includes the Rose Room Theater and Lounge, a world-class, high-tech drag showplace stashed upstairs. Across the street, country western dancing (including lessons) is the claim to fame of Round-Up Saloon & Dance Hall, a sprawling venue with multiple bars and a separate karaoke parlor near the entrance-not to mention once being voted the best gay country western dance hall in the entire US of A. Dallas Eagle, which remains temporarily closed, normally attracts the leather crowd with a high-energy dance floor and various theme nights. Sue Ellen’s two-story setting caters primarily to queer women with a big dance floor and stage for frequent live musical acts. And though they have smaller dance floors, TMC, plus Latin-centric Kaliente and Havana, all play their part. 

Great places to hang out with friends over cocktails include Woody’s sports bar, Hidden Door (with a famous Sunday beer bust), and Pekers Bar, all teeming with super laid-back vibes. For spots with quality eats to match the booze, check out Cedar Springs Tap House, Liquid Zoo Sports Bar & Grille, JR’s Bar & Grill, and Mr. Misster, which also offers a regularly-occurring drag brunch. Alexandre’s features live music and classic cocktails (plus it’s in the process of expanding), while the Tin Room is the top destination to catch male dancers. Two places that aren’t specifically LGBTQ+-focused but end up attracting a pretty even mix of folks from all orientations are the swanky Library Bar at the Warwick Melrose Hotel and the Grapevine Bar, which especially shines during Sunday Funday. Outside Oak Lawn’s boundaries-but well worth a pop-in-are friendly neighborhood joint Barbara’s Pavilion in Oak Cliff and the 1851 Club in Arlington as well as the Urban Cowboy Saloon, Club Changes, and Club Reflection in Fort Worth.

Photo courtesy of Roy G's
Photo courtesy of Roy G’s
Photo courtesy of Roy G’s

Stuff your face with delicious cuisine

Whether you go before, after, or instead of hitting the bars, there’s never an excuse to go hungry in Oak Lawn. Hunky’s Old Fashioned Hamburgers, dating to 1984, has been more recently joined by Mario’s Mexican and Salvadorian Restaurant, Ai Sushi Sake Grill, Crickles & Co Brunch + Brews, Orno, Taqueria La Ventana, Tacos y Mas, Thai Lotus Kitchen, Amico’s Exotic Pizza, Chef House (Chinese & Thai), Cosmic Cafe (vegetarian and vegan), Italia Express, Union Coffee, and Street’s Fine Chicken, plus relative newcomer Roy G’s, which gets its name from the acronym ROYGBIV that helps people remember the colors of the rainbow. Outside the gayborhood, out gay chef Abraham Salum’s namesake Salum Restaurant offers exquisite fine dining. Time to loosen that belt a notch or two.

Outlines
Outlines
Outlines

Shop ‘til you death-drop

When your credit card’s jonesing for some action, head to one of the boutique shops along the main strip, including thrift store Out of the Closet, which also features free on-site HIV testing and counseling, too. For a variety of queer-focused merch, Tapelenders has shifted from its original business plan of renting videos into a great little gift shop for all your queer trinket needs. Meanwhile, for men’s underwear, swimsuits, and other apparel, make sure to check out Skivvies, Outlines Men’s Wear, and the ES Collection.

Resource Center
Resource Center
Resource Center

Visit the Resource Center

One of the crown jewels of the Dallas queer community has long been Resource Center, which goes above and beyond your average YMCA-style neighborhood drop-in. The main building itself is architecturally impactful, built from the ground up to address the many diverse needs of LGBTQ+ people. With services tailored to everyone from youth to senior citizens, a variety of programs zero in on subgroups within the larger community, and local organizations can rent out space for meetings and other events, too. To learn more about all they do-not to mention how you can get involved-sign up for one of their popular Get Centered tours.

Focus on wellness & wellbeing

The health needs of LGBTQ+ folks can be unique and we’re lucky to have so many different options directly serving us, often with free and accessible services including PrEP and STI testing and treatment. Among the outposts in or very close to Oak Lawn are Nelson Tebedo Clinic, Resource Center’s primary care facility, and Prism Health North Texas, which recently partnered with LGBTQ+-focused medical practice, Uptown Physicians Group.

Atelier Barber Co
Atelier Barber Co
Atelier Barber Co

Look great while you’re at it

Throughout the gayborhood, you’ll find a variety of service providers focused on making you look as fantastic on the outside as you do on the inside. Coif your hair at Atelier Barber Co., Salon Aura, and Beauty Box Salon; treat yourself to manicures and pedicures at Onyx Nail Bar, the Nail Spa, and Fab Nail Bar; wink with more confidence after a visit to Dep Lashes; get bronzed at the Tan Bar; and feel better in your bod with help from iFusion Hydration and Aesthetics.

Read up on LGBTQ+ history

Years ago, the Oak Lawn branch of the Dallas Public Library partnered with the Stonewall National Museum and Archives in Fort Lauderdale to create the second-largest collection of LGBTQ+ literature and reference materials in the world. And to add to the fabulous stockpile, the University of North Texas has created the Lesbian, Gay, Transgender and Bisexual Archive, a vast digital archive for collecting and preserving the history of the LGBTQ+ community.

The Daisy Polk Inn & Dickason Cottage
The Daisy Polk Inn & Dickason Cottage
The Daisy Polk Inn & Dickason Cottage

Stay the weekend on the strip

Whether you’re an out-of-towner visiting Dallas or a local looking for a gay old time with a close-to-home staycation, the Warwick Melrose Hotel and gay-owned bed and breakfast Daisy Polk Inn are both great options that sit steps from all the action. Imagine how nice it would be to stumble out of a bar-or waddle out of a restaurant following a big meal-and realize you’re a mere few minutes from a hot shower and a big, comfy bed.Want more Thrillist? Follow us on InstagramTwitterPinterestYouTubeTikTok, and Snapchat.

Steven Lindsey is a contributor for Thrillist. 

Travel

Ditch your Phone for ‘Dome Life’ in this Pastoral Paradise Outside Port Macquarie 

A responsible, sustainable travel choice for escaping big city life for a few days.

nature domes port macquarie
Photo: Nature Domes

The urge to get as far away as possible from the incessant noise and pressures of ‘big city life’ has witnessed increasingly more of us turn to off-grid adventures for our holidays: Booking.com polled travellers at the start of 2023 and 55% of us wanted to spend our holidays ‘off-grid’.  Achieving total disconnection from the unyielding demands of our digitised lives via some kind of off-grid nature time—soft or adventurous—is positioned not only as a holiday but, indeed, a necessity for our mental health. 

Tom’s Creek Nature Domes, an accommodation collection of geodesic domes dotted across a lush rural property in Greater Port Macquarie (a few hours’ drive from Sydney, NSW), offers a travel experience that is truly ‘off-grid’. In the figurative ‘wellness travel’ sense of the word, and literally, they run on their own independent power supply—bolstered by solar—and rely not on the town grid. 

Ten minutes before you arrive at the gates for a stay at Tom’s Creek Nature Domes, your phone goes into ‘SOS ONLY’. Apple Maps gives up, and you’re pushed out of your comfort zone, driving down unsealed roads in the dark, dodging dozens of dozing cows. Then, you must ditch your car altogether and hoist yourself into an open-air, all-terrain 4WD with gargantuan wheels. It’s great fun being driven through muddy gullies in this buggy; you feel like Laura Dern and Jeff Goldblum in Jurassic Park.  As your buggy pulls in front of your personal Nature Dome, it’s not far off that “Welcome…to Jurassic Park” jaw-dropping moment—your futuristic-looking home is completely engulfed by thriving native bushland; beyond the outdoor campfire lie expansive hills and valleys of green farmland, dotted with sheep and trees. You’re almost waiting to see a roaming brachiosaurus glide past, munching on a towering gum tree…instead, a few inquisitive llamas trot past your Dome to check out their new visitor. 

To fully capture the awe of inhabiting a geodesic dome for a few days, a little history of these futuristic-looking spherical structures helps. Consisting of interlocking triangular skeletal struts supported by (often transparent) light walls, geodesic domes were developed in the 20th century by American engineer and architect R. Buckminster Fuller, and were used for arenas. Smaller incarnations have evolved into a ‘future-proof’ form of modern housing: domes are able to withstand harsh elements due to the stability provided by the durable materials of their construction and their large surface area to volume ratio (which helps minimize wind impact and prevents the structure from collapsing). As housing, they’re also hugely energy efficient – their curved shape helps to conserve heat and reduce energy costs, making them less susceptible to temperature changes outside. The ample light let in by their panels further reduces the need for artificial power. 

Due to their low environmental impact, they’re an ideal sustainable travel choice. Of course, Tom’s Creek Nature Domes’ owner-operators, Cardia and Lee Forsyth, know all this, which is why they have set up their one-of-a-kind Nature Domes experience for the modern traveller. It’s also no surprise to learn that owner Lee is an electrical engineer—experienced in renewable energy—and that he designed the whole set-up. As well as the off-grid power supply, rainwater tanks are used, and the outdoor hot tub is heated by a wood fire—your campfire heats up your tub water via a large metal coil. Like most places in regional Australia, the nights get cold – but rather than blast a heater, the Domes provide you with hot water bottles, warm blankets, lush robes and heavy curtains to ward off the chill.

nature domes port macquarie
Photo: Nature Domes

You’ll need to be self-sufficient during your stay at the Domes, bringing your own food. Support local businesses and stock up in the town of Wauchope on your drive-in (and grab some pastries and coffee at Baked Culture while you’re at it). There’s a stovetop, fridge (stocked as per a mini bar), BBQs, lanterns and mozzie coils, and you can even order DIY S’More packs for fireside fun. The interiors of the Domes have a cosy, stylish fit-out, with a modern bathroom (and a proper flushing toilet—none of that drop bush toilet stuff). As there’s no mobile reception, pack a good book or make the most of treasures that lie waiting to be discovered at every turn: a bed chest full of board games, a cupboard crammed with retro DVDs, a stargazing telescope (the skies are ablaze come night time). Many of these activities are ideal for couples, but there’s plenty on offer for solo travellers, such as yoga mats, locally-made face masks and bath bombs for hot tub soaks. 

It’s these thoughtful human touches that reinforce the benefit of making a responsible travel choice by booking local and giving your money to a tourism operator in the Greater Port Macquarie Region, such as Tom’s Creek Nature Domes. The owners are still working on the property following the setbacks of COVID-19, and flooding in the region —a new series of Domes designed with families and groups in mind is under construction, along with an open-air, barn-style dining hall and garden stage. Once ready, the venue will be ideal for wedding celebrations, with wedding parties able to book out the property. They’ve already got one couple—who honeymooned at the Domes—ready and waiting. Just need to train up the llamas for ring-bearer duties! 

An abundance of favourite moments come to mind from my two-night stay at Tom’s Creek: sipping champagne and gourmet picnicking at the top of a hill on a giant swing under a tree, with a bird’s eye view of the entire property (the ‘Mountain Top picnic’ is a must-do activity add on during your stay), lying on a deckchair at night wrapped in a blanket gazing up at starry constellations and eating hot melted marshmallows, to revelling in the joys of travellers before me, scrawled on notes in a jar of wishes left by the telescope (you’re encouraged to write your own to add to the jar). But I’ll leave you with a gratitude journal entry I made while staying there. I will preface this by saying that I don’t actually keep a gratitude journal, but Tom’s Creek Nature Domes is just the kind of place that makes you want to start one. And so, waking up on my second morning at Tom’s —lacking any 4G bars to facilitate my bad habit of a morning Instagram scroll—I finally opened up a notebook and made my first journal entry:

‘I am grateful to wake up after a deep sleep and breathe in the biggest breaths of this clean air, purified by nature and scented with eucalyptus and rain. I am grateful for this steaming hot coffee brewed on a fire. I feel accomplished at having made myself. I am grateful for the skittish sheep that made me laugh as I enjoyed a long nature walk at dawn and the animated billy goats and friendly llamas overlooking my shoulder as I write this: agreeable company for any solo traveller. I’m grateful for total peace, absolute stillness.” 

Off-grid holiday status: unlocked.

Where: Tom’s Creek Nature Domes, Port Macquarie, 2001 Toms Creek Rd
Price: $450 per night, book at the Natura Domes website.

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